When I was in my teen-age year I used to fantasize my ideal man to be tall, dark and handsome. But later on when I first met my first boyfriend all that ‘ideal man’ fantasy is far from my mind. I fell in love with the exact opposite of what I want my man to be but still I’m happy being with him, then I realize how silly I am to have a yardstick on love. When the time comes that you felt it you know that whatever his face looks like it’s the feeling who will control you in the end. it’s not in the looks that we came to be truly in love with someone, when we get to know the person that’s where you discover your personality jives, your world will suddenly turn upside down with the turbulence of your emotions. It will take over. It will not see the differences in your stature, your background, age even in looks. Sometimes our yardsticks in finding the right man is a hindrance to true love, let us go out of our own safe zone and explore all the possibilities in life and in love and only then we can truly feel the magic of ‘Love’. in every relationship, put God in the center of it so you know you are guided well.